Daily Scripture Meditations: Wisdom From Ecclesiastes
Thursday, April 30th, 2009Thursday, April 30, 2009
“Sorrow is better than laughter, for by sadness of countenance the heart is made glad. The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. It is better for a man to hear the rebuke of the wise than to hear the song of fools. For as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fools; this also is vanity.” Ecclesiastes 7:3-6
Laughter, joy, and just plain happiness are so very important. In Nehemiah 8:10 we read, “the joy of the Lord is your strength.” In Proverbs 17:22 King Solomon tells us, “A cheerful heart is a good medicine, but a downcast spirit dries up the bones.” In Proverbs 15:13 we find, “A glad heart makes a cheerful countenance, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is broken.” Everyone needs to laugh. Everyone needs joy. A marriage without laughter is usually a marriage headed to trouble. Children raised in a home without happiness often go looking for happiness in all the wrong ways.
So why does Solomon say, “Sorrow is better than laughter”? Maybe he was thinking of the infield decadence at the Preakness. Maybe he was thinking of the unbelievably vile , juvenile garbage that passes for comedy in Hollywood. Maybe he was thinking of the Happy Hour at the corner bar that’s anything but happy. In other words, you can laugh yourself right into alcoholism. You can laugh yourself right into divorce. You can laugh yourself right into hell. Though laughter and happiness are wonderful gifts from God; they can become, sadly, a means of denial. How many persons keep themselves in a constant pursuit of happiness as a way of avoiding thinking about and dealing with things that need to be changed in their lives? Thus, Solomon advises, “It is better for a man to hear the rebuke of the wise than to hear the song of fools.” When God brings to light sin in your heart, mourn over that sin. When something needs to change in your life, don’t avoid it by numbing yourself with “happiness,” deal with it. This is what Paul speaks of in II Corinthians 7:10, “godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation and brings no regret, though worldly grief produces death.”
Those who preach the Word of God find themselves tempted quite often to soften the message; that is, to preach light, easy-to-swallow sermons. Many of the very large churches have chosen exactly that. In those churches you will never hear the hard truths of Scripture. Those hard truths tend to chase people away. But what’s the point of light, easy sermons? Those kind of sermons are like “the laughter of fools” which, Solomon would say, is like “the crackling of thorns under a pot.” If you cut down a thorn bush and burn it in a campfire, it will produce a lot of noise but not much heat. So it is with light sermons; a lot of noise but not much affect upon people’s lives. One thing I thank God for is that He’s always helped me to preach the Word as it is without worrying about the consequences of doing so.
Prayer: Father, please help us to go to the house of mourning when we need to be in the house of mourning, rejecting the laughter of fools; so that true happiness, true laughter, and true joy may come to our lives. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.